What I Learned from One Entire Year of Daily Blogging

I haven’t blogged the past two days and it’s felt super, super weird. Also liberating. This past year, I posted something every single week day, and over half the weekends too. On Friday October 26th was my official completion of one year of daily blogging. I wasn’t sure I could do it but here we are 312 posts later. Whew! I am tired!

It’s been an interesting year with as many lessons as posts. In that year, I celebrated the 10th year anniversary of writing New York Cliché. 10 years and I decided the best way to mix things up was  an ultra blog marathon.

I once went on a couple dates with a guy who ran ultramarathons. If you’ve never heard of this before, I hadn’t either before this dude dropped his hobby bomb. Over a traditional first date beverage, I learned that ultramarathons are typically 50 or 100 mile races. WHAT THE FUCK? I screamed, flipping our table over in an outrage, WHAT HUMAN DOES THAT?! AS A HOBBY!?!

Poetic license surprise: I didn’t actually scream that. But I never forgot the revelation. It popped into my mind last Friday when I sat hunched over a laptop at 11:50PM, frantically trying to finish a blog post as my fella lay in bed dozing off and occasionally protesting, “Hi. I’m still awake!”

WHAT HUMAN DOES THIS?! AS A HOBBY!?! I wanted to scream at myself.

The Truth about Daily Blogging

I took on this challenge mostly to shake myself away from debilitating perfectionist tendencies. Publishing a post every day makes my typical standard of I MUST BE PROUD OF THIS, IT MUST BE BRILLIANTLY ENTERTAINING impossible. I have a colorful sign on my desk that reminds me DONE IS BETTER THAN GOOD. This is something I need to be constantly reminded of. Blogging every day 100% helped me work through my perfectionism.

Did the daily blogging make me a better writer?

I honestly don’t think so…blogging daily certainly gave me less time to read. Having to publish a post by midnight means I don’t have time to sit and mull over a perfect metaphor or turn of phrase. So I skip it in favor of simple syntax… That said, having a habit of constantly writing, that discipline probably does make me a better writer on some level.

Did the daily blogging make me a better blogger?

No! Blogging daily didn’t even make me a better blogger! See, my one goal this year was to blog every day, and I accomplished that. But something had to give- because I spent my time writing, I didn’t put as much energy into promoting my blog or interacting with readers and other bloggers. Sure, I posted every day, but I let emails, comments, and Facebook posts go unanswered. In my experience, daily blogging while working a full time job turns a person into a bit of an asshole.

For one year, I constantly carried my laptop around with me so I could squeeze posts in between activities. It’s a New York Cliché miracle I never got mugged.

I think my daily blogging has overwhelmed all my readers. When I run into friends I haven’t seen in a while, I can tell they don’t read any more. It’s just too much! Not one single person who I know personally has said “I’m so glad you’re blogging every day! I love reading every single post!” Not with 2018 attention spans. Search the internet and you’ll find an influx of articles about how no one reads blogs any more.

I am done. This is the end of daily blogging for me. I’m pretty happy about it.

November 1st is the start of NaBloPoMo – National Blog Post Month. Thousands of bloggers wrote a post today, the first of a hopeful month of daily content. Power to you guys. You’ll absolutely complete that goal if you truly want to. It’ll be fucking hard, but you’ll also feel a sweet sense of accomplishment.

The bragging rights are top notch too. 

It was truly a joy to watch people’s brains explode when I told them I have a blog, have written it for ten year, and for the past year I’ve updated it daily.

I imagine it is identical to telling people you run 100 mile races. But my knees are a lot happier. Could definitely stand to catch up on some sleep though…

From here on out, I’m hoping to maintain a thrice-weekly blogging schedule. Monday-Wednesday-Friday maybe. Definitely keeping Friday’s New York Minutes. Back to the ol’ quality over quantity. I’ll keep you posted. 

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About New York Cliche

NYC lifestyle blog by Mary Lane. Events, adventures, epic mistakes, dating, life, humor. A 30-something trying to make it (and make out) in the city of dreams.

4 thoughts on “What I Learned from One Entire Year of Daily Blogging

  1. Man, kudos to you! I’ve done months of daily posting, and even that has been quite difficult. I totally understand wanting a break, but I’d just like to say, I sure enjoyed your daily posting while it lasted! Thanks for the work you put into that.

    -Your North Carolinian fan

  2. I think posting every day no matter what would be beyond me and I admire you for keeping it up for a year. I try to post several times a week but if I didn’t have photo challenges I probably wouldn’t post as much as I do. I decided that I wasn’t going to post for the sake of posting. In the end, we blog because we like doing it. If you are forcing yourself, well where is the fun in that? A lot of bloggers I follow say that they struggle to keep up with reading, commenting and writing their own material. I think you have found what is comfortable for you now.

  3. Woo hoo, well dext one for completing it! I was actually thinking about making that my goal for next year but I think you’ve put me off. I think youre right – I’ve loved the extra content from you but everyone is so busy that there isn’t time to keep up. I usually hopped onto your blog at the weekend for a catch-up session! Looking forward to what comes next…

    Nikki| http://www.thoselittlemoments.net

  4. Everyone has their interests. You will dedicate time to them because it brings you happiness.

    Hobby bomb? 😛

    I did end up moving to Colorado. Still doing the ultras.

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